If you would like to download it, click here.

Please note, this is the file format for Kindle. It is not a PDF. If you would like a PDF copy please email me.

Polyday was pretty fun, I’m still looking for people to contribute to the next book. Please contact me if you’d like to take part in a text interview.

And as its our first anniversary of Polyday, there will be a very special promotion on the E-book. From the 16th of June for a limited time only the E-Book will be FREE!*

For those who haven’t seen the TV interview last august, there will be a chance to watch it and interact with the video and audio. If your not attending Polyday you can view all the media on my Youtube Channel.

In other news, my book will be auctioned at two events; The SMDykes conference in Manchester and Altruism in Birmingham. Please come say hello if your attending Polyday.

*if you have bought a copy of the E- book please feel free to contact me for a replacement

What i want to move away from is the book in its current state is too involved with BDSM because all the interviews came from a kink related website.

Now i have met a very many new people, i’d like to get interviews from active poly people.

If you would be happy in answering a set of 9 questions, either by text or on a video recorded on skype please email me: thepolyproject@mail.com

You’d have to be comfortable to have the material used online and in print. All names with be changed and i will be respectful of your privacy.

I look forward to hearing from you.

But whilst on my break today i got an Email from the producer of the 5 Live show presented by Shelagh Foggarty.

Was pretty good interview, if you’d like to listen to it here’s the link (not avalible outside the UK, but will be soon)

Fast forward to 49.11 minutes in

This interview also includes contributions  by my lovely media comrade Maxine Green

It’s been a little while since i’ve posted, as i’ve relocated up north and now finished the book tour.

I’m thinking about what to do next with the project, there are many little loose ends that need to be sorted.

I really would like someone to help me out with them! I really need to move the website to its own dedicated domain and hosting and get back on with the media side of things.

The next thing i’d like to do is take the book to the USA, somewhere like the Folsom fair.

For now, i’m going to be focusing on other projects.

I would like to thank everyone who came to see me on my tour, and i’d like to wish you and your loved ones a very merry Christmas and a very happy 2012!

Mimi xx

I did attend a very interesting talk about non monogamy by Dr Meg Barker, this can be found here.

Also, check out the new video on my Youtube Channel, DK Green talks about polyamory.

I do have a new date, 10th of December Manchester Alt and Burlesque fair. More info about that can be found on the events page.

I am currently in talks organizing a solo exhibition at the beginning of next year, from this i am looking for more people to contribute to more interviews, video or audio especially and if you would like to be photographed please contact me

As usual you can buy the book directly from me, and i hope to make some new friends at the events i attend.

With her kind permission she allowed me to record the lecture.

Here it is: Non Monogamy Talk

Rewriting the Rules

Meg Barker

We live in a time of great uncertainty about relationships. We search for The One, but find ourselves staying single because nobody measures up. We long for a happily-ever-after, but break-up after break-up leaves us bruised and confused. We find a partner, but the reality of the relationship is not what we expected, and it becomes hard to balance it with all the other things that we want out of life.

No wonder we look for rules about relationships to help us to make sense of it all. But which to choose from all the rules on offer? Do we stick to the old rules we learnt growing up, even though they don’t completely fit? Or do we try something new and risk being out on our own and regarded as a freak? And what about the times when the rules we love by seem to make things worse rather than better?

This book is a friendly guide through the complicated, and often contradictory, maze of romantic relationships, exploring the rules that are out there today and the advice that they give us about attraction and sex, commitment and conflict, and many other issues.

Dr. Meg Barker is a sexual and relationship therapist, researcher, and author of many books and articles on relationships and sexuality. She edits the journal Psychology & Sexuality, lectures on psychology and counselling, and is recognised as a world expert in her field.

• 1st of October : London Alternative Market, part of London Fetish Weekend.

• 13th of November : SWAMP Bristol.

• 20th Of November : Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar (BBB)

• NEW DATE! 10th Of December : Alternative and Burlesque Fair Manchester

I am currently in talks to have a solo exhibition at the beginning of next year, more info coming soon.

If you would like me to come visit your event, and talk about the project, please contact me.

The first of a handful of interviews was Dennis Queen, this can be viewed here.

This interview is the same questions as the book, but very special as it touches on Polyamory and bereavement.

More information about Dennis can be found on their blog.

His job is to just put lots of articles describing the history of Poly into boxes that will one day be used by historians studying social change 50 years from now. The collection can be found here

I am very very proud to be contributing to this.

For those who aren’t aware of who Dr Kinsey is have a look at this

He was also the subject of a film about his life and works